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The bar manager's face went white, and he just looked at him with that "I'm glad you're happy" expression. I'm sure he was relieved, but I don't think he was happy.
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And so I thought "I'll be careful. I'll get to know this guy." And then he would get to know me. He said "You look very nice." And then I said "I'm gay. I can't help it." I just thought "OK I can be nice. It's so nice to be nice." Then he started to say "Do you have any girlfriends?" and I thought "No, I have no girlfriends." And he said "I want to date you." I thought "Well, that's nice. I guess that's the price we pay for being so kind and loving and kind."
And then I thought "Oh, it's kind of a shame I have to tell you this. You're so sweet. I don't want to hurt your feelings." And then he said "Can you drive us to your place for dinner?"
"Uh, OK." So I said "Okay, I don't really like this." He said "You have a great personality. I want to meet other men like you."
And I thought "OK, I don't like this at all." But he went "OK, do you have a boyfriend?" And I said "Yes. I have a boyfriend. We're going to a restaurant tonight. We're going to dinner. Will you come with us?" And he said "Sure." So I said "OK." And we drove to his place. It was a nice house. And there were other guys there. They had fun. They were just hanging out. And they were having fun. And then we came back home. And I just meet gay guys online said "You know, I have a girlfriend. I want to know what it is like." And he's like, "Well, you just have to show up."
I had a girlfriend. And it wasn't the same thing. I remember sitting on the couch and thinking, "Oh my God, I love you, but that's not the same." And then he said "If you go to your mom's and she's like 'Oh that's your girlfriend," you know, I'd like to know how she feels. And then when I got home I got back on the couch, and I said "Well, I really want to know. And I want you to go to a gay bar."
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And I remember feeling a little bit relieved, because I didn't know gay men sites what I was going to do with myself. My mom said, "You can go to the gay bar and do this and that," and I said, "I want to go there." And she was like, "Okay, okay, I'm going to talk to my son, but if you go do this, I will be happy. But if you don't do this, I'm going to be really sad." And I'm like, "Okay."
And then the next day when I came home I started doing it. It was just really exciting. I started going to gay bars, getting my friends to go, and that was my first taste of what I'm all about. I was really looking forward to doing it, but my mom's attitude toward it was very clear: "Do this.